UPDATED: I want my intsportshack.com, .org, and .net to use the chromatophore template.  Then I want my gearedtofit.com, .net, .org to use the equinox template.  I want completely different content on both sites.

UPDATE: I think my host will not allow this, so I may be looking for a new one.  For those using Rochen, I still wonder how can I administrate two different templates with the same host?

(SOLVED) UPDATE: Ok, maybe this was a no brainer, but I totally missed it.  My host site (which I do like dispite some bumps) finally got back to me and explained a simple little thing that I wouldn't have caught on my own. 

Simply this - to install multiple sites in one database - during the installation, when setting up the database, change the database PREFIX to something different...so easy...so overlooked.  But I'm willing to share my oversight for those who may also be, at times, as clueless as me.

Thanks!